Archive for May, 2009

The General and the trenches

Tuesday, May 5th, 2009

This one may seem a little harsh or bitter, but I need share this thought!  Have any of you ever experienced that person who acts like a general towards you, telling how, when and what to feel while grieving?  You know what I want to say to those people, “If you are not fighting the war and in the trenches, you should not act like a general.”  Grieving is very analogous to a war and a battlefield.  I just wish people would understand that this battle will never end, and to please give me my the space and time to fight my own war, in my own way.