http://siblinggrief.com/nights-alone/ A Place to Talk About Adult Sibling Loss and Grief Fri, 30 Jul 2010 10:25:34 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 http://siblinggrief.com/nights-alone/comment-page-1/#comment-2088 Nicole Fri, 30 Apr 2010 19:28:03 +0000 http://siblinggrief.com/?p=136#comment-2088 Ginger my brother who was 35 died suddenly from a pulmonary embelism that was misdiagnosed as pneumonia. He died on April 1st 2010. My brother and I were 13 months apart. I listen to music when I can't sleep, and sometimes cry and rock myself to sleep. My brother and I were also close but had a strained relationship due to family dysfuntion. My mother is mentally ill and she had a very distructive force on the family. It helps to type out feelings, I'm not sure why? I understand about the 3am. I often wake up at that time and 12:00 also. My brother died around 11:00 which would have been 12:00 my time. Are you able to talk with your brother? That is what I do. I start out as a prayer and then talk to him. Sometimes I just talk to him without a prayer. I also am getting therapy too. I cannot relate to your pain because everyone's heartache is different, but please know that I wrote this to possibly help you know that I care and wake up also at night. Ginger my brother who was 35 died suddenly from a pulmonary embelism that was misdiagnosed as pneumonia. He died on April 1st 2010. My brother and I were 13 months apart. I listen to music when I can’t sleep, and sometimes cry and rock myself to sleep. My brother and I were also close but had a strained relationship due to family dysfuntion. My mother is mentally ill and she had a very distructive force on the family. It helps to type out feelings, I’m not sure why? I understand about the 3am. I often wake up at that time and 12:00 also. My brother died around 11:00 which would have been 12:00 my time. Are you able to talk with your brother? That is what I do. I start out as a prayer and then talk to him. Sometimes I just talk to him without a prayer. I also am getting therapy too. I cannot relate to your pain because everyone’s heartache is different, but please know that I wrote this to possibly help you know that I care and wake up also at night.

]]> http://siblinggrief.com/nights-alone/comment-page-1/#comment-2080 Ginger Tue, 16 Mar 2010 19:59:50 +0000 http://siblinggrief.com/?p=136#comment-2080 I am so sorry for your loss. I just lost my brother last month to an aortic aneurism in his heart. He was only 35. We are a year apart. and he was my best friend. i miss him so much. the nights are the hardest for me as well. i wake up every night around 3 am and cant get back to sleep. I am so sorry for your loss. I just lost my brother last month to an aortic aneurism in his heart. He was only 35. We are a year apart. and he was my best friend. i miss him so much. the nights are the hardest for me as well. i wake up every night around 3 am and cant get back to sleep.

]]> http://siblinggrief.com/nights-alone/comment-page-1/#comment-1992 Emily Mon, 17 Aug 2009 00:17:51 +0000 http://siblinggrief.com/?p=136#comment-1992 So sorry about your loss. I lost my brother several years ago. I think you're doing the right thing by blogging about it. I wish I had done it sooner. Just go the nerve to do it actually. I wrote a blog post about the power of social media in the time of grieving. Bet you can relate. http://www.emilykostic.com/archives/753 So sorry about your loss. I lost my brother several years ago. I think you’re doing the right thing by blogging about it. I wish I had done it sooner. Just go the nerve to do it actually. I wrote a blog post about the power of social media in the time of grieving. Bet you can relate. http://www.emilykostic.com/archives/753

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