Comments on: Tell Us Your Story http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/ A Place to Talk About Adult Sibling Loss and Grief Mon, 06 Feb 2012 18:42:37 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: blood clot in heart http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/comment-page-2/#comment-2192 blood clot in heart Fri, 30 Dec 2011 23:12:48 +0000 http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/#comment-2192 <strong>blood clot in heart...</strong> [...]Tell Us Your Story « Sibling Grief | A Place to Talk About Adult Sibling Loss and Grief[...]... blood clot in heart…

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]]> By: Kate http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/comment-page-2/#comment-2189 Kate Sun, 11 Dec 2011 15:43:10 +0000 http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/#comment-2189 I too lost my big brother a few years back. He was a Chief of Police at one time and I thought nothing could touch him. He passed at 50 from diabetes. He was larger than life then GONE! where, how! I wanted to share that I found the book - Life Out of Order by Sally Laux very helpful. Check it out. I too lost my big brother a few years back. He was a Chief of Police at one time and I thought nothing could touch him. He passed at 50 from diabetes. He was larger than life then GONE! where, how!
I wanted to share that I found the book - Life Out of Order by Sally Laux very helpful. Check it out.

]]> By: Destini http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/comment-page-2/#comment-2184 Destini Mon, 05 Dec 2011 16:52:02 +0000 http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/#comment-2184 I lost my big baby brother 10 weeks 2 day 2 hours and 34 minutes ago. He took a girl he met out for a motorcycle ride around 8 in the morning which he loved to do. but the tire blew out.... and if you go to the scene he had the bike under control, did everything he was taught to do. but at the last second 1 foot before it was to late, his bike swerved about 6 inches and no one knows why... and he hit the fire hyderant..... he it appears he died before he left the bike.... she held onto him for dear life and if it wasn't for that she wouldn't have survived. He was my baby brother who was 4 inches taller than me, just about the only guys who was.... and he was my MacGyver, my Mr. Fix~it... My son's uncle.... and now he is gone, and no one will tell us what happened. We still don't know anything, no one has answered our questions. His friend who he was with won't even take our calls... didn't come to the services..... and his other friends, act like they are more important to my brother than we are. they have been tryin to take over everything, from taking his belongings after the funeral, and taking the memorial fund that was collected in his honor... Which just makes this overwhelming pain i can't get to go away even worse. People keep telling me that he wouldn't want me to be like this. I know that, but i don't want him to be gone..... I don't want to not have a brother anymore, I want my son to have his uncle, and I want to go to his house and tease him for the mess!!! I don't want anyone to have his things but him!!!!! He was only 27 would have been 28 2 weeks from tomorrow... he owned his own house, truck, boat, motorcycle, and fourwheeler, and vacationed 2 times a year!!!! He just got a HUGE raise.... and would give a total stranger in need the shirt off his back in a blizzard! I lost my big baby brother 10 weeks 2 day 2 hours and 34 minutes ago. He took a girl he met out for a motorcycle ride around 8 in the morning which he loved to do. but the tire blew out…. and if you go to the scene he had the bike under control, did everything he was taught to do. but at the last second 1 foot before it was to late, his bike swerved about 6 inches and no one knows why… and he hit the fire hyderant….. he it appears he died before he left the bike…. she held onto him for dear life and if it wasn’t for that she wouldn’t have survived. He was my baby brother who was 4 inches taller than me, just about the only guys who was…. and he was my MacGyver, my Mr. Fix~it… My son’s uncle…. and now he is gone, and no one will tell us what happened. We still don’t know anything, no one has answered our questions. His friend who he was with won’t even take our calls… didn’t come to the services….. and his other friends, act like they are more important to my brother than we are. they have been tryin to take over everything, from taking his belongings after the funeral, and taking the memorial fund that was collected in his honor… Which just makes this overwhelming pain i can’t get to go away even worse.
People keep telling me that he wouldn’t want me to be like this. I know that, but i don’t want him to be gone….. I don’t want to not have a brother anymore, I want my son to have his uncle, and I want to go to his house and tease him for the mess!!! I don’t want anyone to have his things but him!!!!! He was only 27 would have been 28 2 weeks from tomorrow… he owned his own house, truck, boat, motorcycle, and fourwheeler, and vacationed 2 times a year!!!! He just got a HUGE raise…. and would give a total stranger in need the shirt off his back in a blizzard!

]]> By: susan driscoll http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/comment-page-2/#comment-2183 susan driscoll Sun, 13 Nov 2011 02:57:57 +0000 http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/#comment-2183 leonie- i read your post about about not wanting to accept his passing, i totally understand, i feel like if i accept it that im moving on and forgetting about him, and i dont want to ever forget him i dont want to move on, i just want to stop crying leonie- i read your post about about not wanting to accept his passing, i totally understand, i feel like if i accept it that im moving on and forgetting about him, and i dont want to ever forget him i dont want to move on, i just want to stop crying

]]> By: susan driscoll http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/comment-page-2/#comment-2182 susan driscoll Sun, 13 Nov 2011 02:54:48 +0000 http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/#comment-2182 i lost my brother very suddenly five months ago. he was only 30 years old and we were only 13 months apart. he was killed in a car accident while walking. and we still dont know the whole story. everyday is so hard to get through. im in therapy now and im not sure its helping. nothing will bring him back. i think about him everyday. i have a son who is 19 months old and always wish he could see his uncle just one more time. i miss brian so much and wish i could hug him and tell him i love him once more i lost my brother very suddenly five months ago. he was only 30 years old and we were only 13 months apart. he was killed in a car accident while walking. and we still dont know the whole story. everyday is so hard to get through. im in therapy now and im not sure its helping. nothing will bring him back. i think about him everyday. i have a son who is 19 months old and always wish he could see his uncle just one more time. i miss brian so much and wish i could hug him and tell him i love him once more

]]> By: true|love|story http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/comment-page-2/#comment-2181 true|love|story Sun, 13 Nov 2011 01:51:28 +0000 http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/#comment-2181 <strong>true|love|story...</strong> [...]Tell Us Your Story « Sibling Grief | A Place to Talk About Adult Sibling Loss and Grief[...]... true|love|story…

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]]> By: Cheryl http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/comment-page-2/#comment-2180 Cheryl Sat, 12 Nov 2011 05:41:35 +0000 http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/#comment-2180 My brother is dying now and has been ill many years. He is 54 as of 10/19 My grief is already begun.. My brother is dying now and has been ill many years. He is 54 as of 10/19
My grief is already begun..

]]> By: Fenix Lights Luminance http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/comment-page-2/#comment-2178 Fenix Lights Luminance Tue, 08 Nov 2011 19:31:31 +0000 http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/#comment-2178 <strong>Fenix Lights Luminance...</strong> [...]Tell Us Your Story « Sibling Grief | A Place to Talk About Adult Sibling Loss and Grief[...]... Fenix Lights Luminance…

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]]> By: Leonie http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/comment-page-2/#comment-2177 Leonie Tue, 08 Nov 2011 12:52:26 +0000 http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/#comment-2177 I watched him die I watched him die

]]> By: Leonie http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/comment-page-2/#comment-2176 Leonie Tue, 08 Nov 2011 12:41:57 +0000 http://siblinggrief.com/tell-us-your-story/#comment-2176 He was the best of all of us. I didn't know his faults. Not since about 15 anyway... Part of me feels that if I come to terms and accept his death, I'm letting him go, I don't want to let him go.. Ever.. He's my beautiful brother , more precious than I ever knew . He was the best of all of us. I didn’t know his faults. Not since about 15 anyway… Part of me feels that if I come to terms and accept his death, I’m letting him go, I don’t want to let him go.. Ever.. He’s my beautiful brother , more precious than I ever knew .

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