http://siblinggrief.com/the-d-word/ A Place to Talk About Adult Sibling Loss and Grief Fri, 30 Jul 2010 10:18:55 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 http://siblinggrief.com/the-d-word/comment-page-1/#comment-2082 Heather Sun, 21 Mar 2010 00:56:36 +0000 http://siblinggrief.com/?p=122#comment-2082 No, you are not alone. I am the same way. Even ten years later I cannot say my brother died or is dead. It is always when he "left". I lost my brother on his 21st Bday. He got in the car with someone who had been drinking and was in a fatal car crash. Time does lessen the pain but it is definitely a loss you will never get over. What you are feeling is so normal. I have had a fear of death ever since he passed. Since then, I am afraid of everyone dying that I love whereas before I never thought about it too much. Hang in there and trust in Jesus to get you through. No, you are not alone. I am the same way. Even ten years later I cannot say my brother died or is dead. It is always when he “left”. I lost my brother on his 21st Bday. He got in the car with someone who had been drinking and was in a fatal car crash. Time does lessen the pain but it is definitely a loss you will never get over. What you are feeling is so normal. I have had a fear of death ever since he passed. Since then, I am afraid of everyone dying that I love whereas before I never thought about it too much. Hang in there and trust in Jesus to get you through.

]]> http://siblinggrief.com/the-d-word/comment-page-1/#comment-2066 Dalenny Sun, 21 Feb 2010 22:48:01 +0000 http://siblinggrief.com/?p=122#comment-2066 Well I most say.. I feel the exact same way about the "d" word as you call it. I have used the words you mentioned. My name is Dalenny, I just lost my brother 5 months ago.. Sept. 24th, eleven days after my birthday.. I completely am with you on this and many other of your posts. Well I most say.. I feel the exact same way about the “d” word as you call it. I have used the words you mentioned. My name is Dalenny, I just lost my brother 5 months ago.. Sept. 24th, eleven days after my birthday.. I completely am with you on this and many other of your posts.

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